Jem Bendell: Post-Doom With Michael Dowd (17 March 2020)

Welcome to the Post-Doom Conversations

Welcome! Step into the exciting realm of post-doom conversations, where we explore the new era that has arrived after the chaos of the coronavirus. I am your host, Michael Dowd, welcoming you to this groundbreaking series. Today, I am privileged to have Gem Bendele, one of the most inspiring voices in this sphere, join me in this conversation. Prepare to embark on an educational journey as Connie, my wife, adds visually captivating overlays to enhance your experience. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride!

Embracing the Unexpected: Coronavirus and Deep Adaptation

Let me start by admitting that this is my first time addressing the topic of the coronavirus. It took our dedicated team and over 50 volunteers at Deep Adaptation by surprise. I am immensely grateful for those volunteers who, as early as January, recognized the magnitude of this crisis. They bravely said, "Gem, this is significant, it could have an enormous impact." While not directly related to climate change, the coronavirus is intimately connected to Deep Adaptation's framework and philosophy of preparing for collapse and nurturing compassionate wisdom within that context.

A Call to Action: Deep Listening in the Time of Isolation

In the coming days, we will be reaching out to approximately 15,000 individuals across our network, inviting them to join us in organizing online deep listening circles. These circles aim to connect people amidst the sea of difficult emotions triggered by the current situation. These spaces of vulnerability and empathy serve as crucial lifelines in a time when physical distance separates us. Furthermore, we are exploring the idea of adopting a similar format to the Death Cafe, where individuals gather in small groups to openly discuss their relationship with mortality. This undertaking is essential, as a potential 70% infection rate and a 15% mortality rate among individuals over 70 foretell the magnitude of loss we may face. Our goal is not only to hold space for these emotions but to actively support and foster resilience within our communities.

Section 2: A Deep Dive into Gem Bendele's Work and Inspirations

The Anticipation Finally Comes to Life

Hello, hello! Brace yourself, for this conversation with Gem has been eagerly awaited. Your work on Deep Adaptation, along with the captivating content you have shared through writings and videos, has been a profound source of inspiration. I wholeheartedly admire and appreciate the impact you've made, including the Positive Deep Adaptation forum on Facebook. Alongside remarkable contributors like Catherine...

Section 3: Navigating the Emotional Rollercoaster

Balancing Responsibility and Selfishness: A Personal Reflection

As the threat of the coronavirus loomed, I found myself torn between feelings of responsibility and a nagging hint of selfishness. Initially, I hesitated to stock up on food, unsure of the necessity. Yet, as the situation unfolded, the gravity of the circumstances became clearer. I made the decision to prepare, recognizing the importance of being self-sufficient in the face of potential shortages. It was a conflicted choice, for I questioned the morality of stockpiling resources while others struggled. However, the uncertainty of just-in-time suppliers pushed me to prioritize preparedness.

The Call for Neighborliness and Support

In times like these, the need for neighborliness becomes apparent. I have witnessed countless acts of kindness within my own community, providing a glimmer of hope amidst the chaos. One example that truly touched my heart was when a neighbor offered to do grocery shopping for those who were older, immunocompromised, or otherwise vulnerable. This selfless act not only eased the burden on the most at-risk individuals but also symbolized the power of human connection and empathy. It is through such gestures that we build resilient communities, united in our determination to weather any storm.

The Pledge of Resilience: A Balancing Act of Anticipatory Grief

In these challenging times, my partner suggested a powerful pledge aimed at preventing older individuals from overwhelming healthcare systems. The pledge encourages them to refuse hospitalization if they contract the virus, ensuring that resources are allocated to those with a higher chance of survival. I admire my partner's wisdom and foresight, but I must admit that it evokes a sense of anticipatory grief within me. The mere thought of a loved one navigating this perilous journey alone fills me with conflicting emotions. The uncertainty and fear are real, but so is the strength and resilience we possess to face these challenges head-on.

Section 4: Embracing Change and Forging Ahead

The Wake-Up Call and the Path Forward

The arrival of the coronavirus has jolted us awake, shaking the foundations of our daily lives. It is a stark reminder that change is the only constant, and adaptation is our greatest weapon against a rapidly evolving world. As we navigate these uncharted waters, let us dare to dream, innovate, and seek meaningful connections. This crisis has shown us the power we hold as individuals to make a difference, to support one another, and to shape a brighter future. Together, we stand strong and resilient, ready to build a world that thrives even in the face of adversity.

Conclusion

In this era post-coronavirus, we find ourselves at the precipice of transformation. Conversations like the one shared between Gem Bendele and Michael Dowd provide us with the intellectual and emotional fuel needed to navigate the uncertainties ahead. Let us embrace the complexity, burst with creativity, and defy predictability as we forge a path towards a future shaped not by fear, but by courage, compassion, and unwavering hope.

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