Golden Rules To Get Girls That Don’T Want You (Real Examples!)

I always say that chasing a woman is a waste of time. It's crystal clear that there is no point in humiliating yourself. But are there exceptions when it is really worth seeking the attention of a girl?

Do you know what I noticed? Men don't understand that the relationship in which a woman is pursued is fundamentally different from a relationship in which she is not. They have different natures, different rules, different expectations, and different endings.

The Illusion of Investment

Men often think that in order to make a woman want to be in a relationship, they should invest in her properly. This can mean investing financially, emotionally, or with their time. They believe that by doing whatever it takes to make her agree to be with them, the hard work is done.

But for a woman, agreeing to be in a relationship is just the beginning. She feels that she has already received everything she wanted from the man, without having to do anything in return. And now that she has him, he wants to relax and stop putting in the effort.

The Woman's Response in a Relationship

In a relationship, a woman often takes on the role of caretaker, cooking meals and refraining from communicating with other men. She expects that the man will reciprocate in even greater ways than before. But often, he doesn't care because he has already achieved his goal.

This disconnect between the expectations of men and women in a relationship creates tension. The woman feels that she didn't agree to this and tries to figure out what needs to be done so that the man becomes the same as before.

In this situation, the man turns inside out in order to please the woman. He thinks that if she agrees now, she will agree forever. But the woman still expects more. She wants the relationship to continue evolving, just like in a restaurant where the appetizer was great, but she expects the main course to be magnificent.

The Dangers of Constantly Chasing

Let's be honest, constantly chasing a woman is almost impossible. If you decide to pursue her, there are only two options that await you.

The first option is that you will always be trying to please her, but the fire will be gone. You got what you wanted, but now you are left with empty gestures and a loss of authenticity. This leads to arguments and conflicts because you are constantly afraid of upsetting her. Such relationships always seem very fragile.

The second option is that the woman finds ways to manipulate you into doing what she wants. There will be constant tension between you because any plateau or sense of routine will be perceived as an insult. She will say, "Our relationship is not going anywhere."

The Last Step of the Chase

When you have successfully won the girl over, you might feel like you have given her everything she desired. You have shown signs of attention, made her feel beautiful, and had a mad desire for her. But soon enough, she will want to taste this cocktail of emotions again, and you will become the familiar routine.

The woman will inevitably realize that the feelings she craves are only possible with someone new. The chase is about constantly offering the emotional experience she desires.

An interesting fact is that in some cultures, like in a small town where a friend of mine lives, courtship is not customary. It is believed that courtship can cloud the mind and lead to choosing the wrong partner. While this may sound strange, there is a lot of sense to it. After all, the pursuit is essentially an investment of a woman's time. If you don't pay for the next session, someone else will take your place.

Understanding Female Emotions

Many men think that a girl cares about how much they think about her and how strong their feelings are. But the truth is, a woman chooses not the one who loves her more, but the one who can provide her with the emotions she craves. It's about playing on female emotions competently and in time.

If you are able to offer a woman comfort, help build her career, and make her life easy without demanding anything special from her, this might work. She may think, "Well, I don't have feelings for him, but he's not a bad man. He's kind and makes me comfortable. Okay, let's try this."

The Importance of Mental Preparation

To conquer a woman, you don't need to suffer over her and show how much you love her. Instead, you need to be in a position to turn her life into a fairy tale. But it is necessary to mentally prepare yourself for the fact that after a couple of years in this kind of relationship, she may be tempted to cheat in order to experience fresh, strong feelings with someone else.

However, don't be anxious. If you have secured the relationship enough and made her dependent on you, there is a good chance that the beloved will return back to the family nest. This can be achieved by making her financially dependent on you or by building a family and nurturing maternal feelings.

Ultimately, the key is to choose a woman who will respect you for who you really are, rather than being bound to you by artificial ties. These are the real, strong relationships that last long and bring joy and happiness to your life.