Cap.6: La Parte No Tan Buena Del Amor - Clara Chia Y Nerea Hurtado

Love, oh love! It's the universal elixir that flows through our lives like a river, intertwining with our emotions and desires. Whether it's the romantic spark between two star-crossed lovers or the unwavering bonds of friendship, love is the beating heart of our existence. Yet, in this exhilarating and often perplexing journey of love, we sometimes encounter the enigma of ghosting.

But first, let's take a moment to reflect on the inimitable philosopher, Aristotle. He once mused that "Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies." It's a profound sentiment that underscores the fundamental truth about love—it's a unifying force that connects individuals on a profound level. So why does ghosting, the art of disappearing from someone's life without a trace, pose such a complex puzzle in this mosaic of affection?

The Ghosting Dilemma: Love Lost in the Digital Ether

Ghosting, my friends, is the act of vanishing from someone's life, leaving them in emotional limbo. It's like that magic trick you see on TV, where a magician makes a rabbit disappear from a hat. But unlike magic, there's no thrill or excitement in this illusion. In this modern age of technology, ghosting has taken on a digital guise, where a simple "unsend" button or the delete key can make a person vanish from your world.

Now, let's channel the wisdom of Confucius, who urged us to "Respect yourself and others will respect you." Ghosting is a flagrant violation of this wisdom. It's a breach of respect and empathy, leaving the other person adrift in a sea of unanswered questions. When someone who once filled your life with laughter and love suddenly fades into the digital ether, it's perplexing, even maddening.

Unraveling the Riddle of Ghosting: A Personal Journey

You see, I've had my share of encounters with the ghosting phenomenon. It's a journey filled with uncertainty, self-doubt, and a deep yearning for closure. The remarkable Maria Popova once wrote, "In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer." The irony is that even in the coldest of emotional winters, we carry that invincible summer of love within us.

I found myself clinging to the idea that, despite the ghosting, I still loved this person. I justified their actions, believed they couldn't be a bad person, and that they must have their reasons. It's a testament to the power of love, the unyielding force that blinds us to the obvious truth. Yet, there comes a moment when you realize that you're not the villain in this story. As Glen Allsopp (ViperChill) would say, "It's not your circus, and they're not your monkeys."

Love, Respect, and Moving Forward

So, what's the conclusion in this labyrinth of love and ghosting? Love is a radiant force, a beacon of positivity that illuminates our lives. It's essential in all areas of our existence, from romantic relationships to friendships and family bonds. Love is what gives purpose to our journey, propelling us forward.

Yet, in the pursuit of love, we must not forget the virtues of communication and empathy. These are the bridges that connect us, allowing us to navigate the complexities of human emotions. Sometimes, this means having uncomfortable conversations to resolve issues, because as James Clear wisely noted, "You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems."

Moreover, being a good person and taking emotional responsibility are paramount. As Nelson Mandela once taught us, "No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love."

In the end, love is worth the journey, even with the pain and confusion that ghosting may bring. It's a rollercoaster ride, but it's one that makes life an exhilarating adventure. So, don't fear the suffering, embrace it, because as the brilliant Albert Einstein once said, "Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving."

In the grand tapestry of love, ghosting is just a tiny thread, a fleeting moment of confusion in the vast expanse of affection. Love is the melody that makes our hearts dance, the fuel that propels us forward, and the light that guides us through the darkest of times. So, my friends, cherish the love in your life, for it's a treasure that outshines the enigma of ghosting and adds color to the canvas of your existence.